tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post8306428943998544648..comments2024-03-05T02:09:18.122-08:00Comments on We Are All Made of Stars: At 17 weeks pregnant, we lost our baby girl.Megan Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-3824083193299032622020-05-10T14:42:32.683-07:002020-05-10T14:42:32.683-07:00Thanks for sharing such beautiful information with...Thanks for sharing such beautiful information with us. I hope you will share some more information about heartbeat. Please keep sharing. <br /><b><a href="http://healthisalife.com/" title="Health Is A Life" rel="nofollow">Health Is A Life </a></b><br />Healthytipshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15783165585939831319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-58269922171832082522019-07-15T01:29:46.337-07:002019-07-15T01:29:46.337-07:00I can understand your pain and I feel sorry for yo...I can understand your pain and I feel sorry for you. In <a href="https://www.swcic.com/treatments/ivf-in-vitro-fertilization.php" rel="nofollow">IVF treatment</a>, the failure will be happened due to many reasons. But, don't lose your hope and keep trying.ananyamrugahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482849843975930437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-18043189157193929192017-02-15T14:57:24.927-08:002017-02-15T14:57:24.927-08:00Thank you Amie.Thank you Amie.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-60736156036019369782017-02-15T14:57:09.101-08:002017-02-15T14:57:09.101-08:00Thank you Megan.Thank you Megan.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-19067807268730921872017-02-15T14:56:37.773-08:002017-02-15T14:56:37.773-08:00Thank you - baby A was delivered at HOAG and my do...Thank you - baby A was delivered at HOAG and my doctor's office is right across the street. I will look into this.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-13674987468439247682017-02-15T14:55:59.965-08:002017-02-15T14:55:59.965-08:00Thank you so much Sarah. Thank you so much Sarah. Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-15493846056650533002017-02-15T14:55:40.966-08:002017-02-15T14:55:40.966-08:00I appreciate it, thank you.I appreciate it, thank you.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-44667252527664715252017-02-15T14:55:26.011-08:002017-02-15T14:55:26.011-08:00<3<3Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-59649998215766969722017-02-15T14:55:13.767-08:002017-02-15T14:55:13.767-08:00Thank you KristinThank you KristinMegan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-90798805623630918982017-02-15T14:54:48.983-08:002017-02-15T14:54:48.983-08:00Thank you so much Lisa <3Thank you so much Lisa <3<br />Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-64244173909638486252017-02-15T14:54:24.860-08:002017-02-15T14:54:24.860-08:00Diana - I incorporated your advice into a posting ...Diana - I incorporated your advice into a posting because so many who suffer miscarriage do not know. https://www.fertilityauthority.com/blog/megan-swanek/2017/2/14/advice-following-miscarriage Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-21679493116504177272017-02-15T14:53:29.312-08:002017-02-15T14:53:29.312-08:00Tracey - Thank you for sharing your story and your...Tracey - Thank you for sharing your story and your strong words of support. I would say that you very much do know what I'm going through. Did you name him? Our chromosomal testing came back normal so unfortunately, no answers there. But I have to tell myself there could have still been a lot wrong that would not show up on that. I am encouraged that you had a daughter after, and that you still speak of him. A friend told me that she is with my Mom, her Nana...and that brought me some comfort.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-91467633283135099542017-01-22T16:52:17.361-08:002017-01-22T16:52:17.361-08:00First off, I am so sorry for your loss. While I wi...First off, I am so sorry for your loss. While I will not ever tell another woman "I know what you're feeling" because the fact is we don't, I can absolutely relate...Reading your update I couldn't help but become short of breath and teary eyed. Maybe PTSD in some form. I lost my 2nd child at 13 weeks, 5 days. We had just made it out of that "scary first trimester" and felt relieved like you mentioned. We, like you, had heard a strong heart beat the month before and have sonogram photos of a thriving baby we saw moving around on the first sonogram. I showed no symptoms of my childs death. It was at my second OB appointment sonogram that showed no more beating of the heart. I can also relate to what you meant about having her, in her physical form, with you and the torn feeling of going into the procedure to remove her from you. The way I looked at it back then and even now, 9 years later, is I believe God let my body hold my baby just a little while longer before we had to officially say goodbye for now. I went through a hellish two more months after D&C due to an inexperienced doctor (who left the placenta attached and lead to a new doctor and second D&C) so I'm so glad that you stood up and said no to the botched doctor touching you again. I am also so glad you are doing the genetic testing. I had a lot of that unfounded guilt about "what did I do to cause this?!" The testing did help with getting the answers of "why" and taking the unnecessary burden off of me. I know many other mothers don't get to have that testing because they naturally pass their babies. That is where we learned his sex also. Our baby had a trisomy chromosome deformity. In the best case scenario for his defect he probably still would not have survived birth, and if so he would only have lived days, if that. I still miss him everyday. We talk about him in our home in a very natural way. We did go on to have a daughter a year after his death. She is healthy and strong and knows of her sibling that we lost also before her. God Bless you and your family through this difficult time and as you begin to heal and move forward. xo ~TraceytraceyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16893489958285670088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-14381070580463128672017-01-21T18:45:34.153-08:002017-01-21T18:45:34.153-08:00Megan,
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can'...Megan,<br />I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the heartbreak. Please reach out to us on the other side of the screen if there is anything we can do. Love, KristinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-44177963207839905842017-01-20T20:42:31.886-08:002017-01-20T20:42:31.886-08:00Oh Megan, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart br...Oh Megan, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for youjAllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06282963869813954232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-56022788107803333062017-01-20T08:03:26.182-08:002017-01-20T08:03:26.182-08:00I read this a little too late.............but fort...I read this a little too late.............but fortunately, my husband had looked into it and suggested that we get her remains about an hour before my appointment. Thank you for mentioning this. He also contacted a funeral home. I am so sorry that you know this through experience. No one should have to. Love to you.Megan Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287505547652721159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-7119889662010835372017-01-20T07:34:04.084-08:002017-01-20T07:34:04.084-08:00My heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your much lo...My heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your much longed for baby daughter. So hard to understand why these things happen. Prayers for you and your family. MBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14021757592708902187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-66641885627124059812017-01-19T22:52:52.364-08:002017-01-19T22:52:52.364-08:00Oh sweet lady! I'm so sorry. May you find sola...Oh sweet lady! I'm so sorry. May you find solace for what there is no answer and May you find comfort where you need it most. Hugs -Ivf mama to ivf mama xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02766409752485313950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-90386661795568038462017-01-19T21:16:19.649-08:002017-01-19T21:16:19.649-08:00My heart is breaking for you as I read this. I los...My heart is breaking for you as I read this. I lost my son almost 3 years ago at 22 weeks, praying for you! There is an amazing perinatal loss group at Hoag in Newport that is open to anyone, it helps so much with the healing processAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04511639651841822562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-73787707311535129762017-01-19T17:08:13.395-08:002017-01-19T17:08:13.395-08:00There are no words to ease your pain. Sending you ...There are no words to ease your pain. Sending you and your family virtual hugs, and prayers for your hearts.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13999909111262391419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-27892348843980881402017-01-19T15:29:58.785-08:002017-01-19T15:29:58.785-08:00Been thinking and praying for you all day, ever si...Been thinking and praying for you all day, ever since I read the update on Instagram. My heart aches for you. Sending much love.Lisa @ Amateur Nesterhttp://www.amateurnester.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-85900662341851932402017-01-19T14:52:50.923-08:002017-01-19T14:52:50.923-08:00Megan, You don't know me and I just stumbled o...Megan, You don't know me and I just stumbled on your blog from another today, but I read this through tears. I lost my twin boys at 20 weeks several years ago, and my full term son at 3 weeks old a year later. I deeply understand your pain through this and I'm so, so very sorry for the loss. <br />I realize this may be the most intrusive comment ever, but I simply was pulled to say it: please know you are able to request to have your baby transferred to a funeral home and cremated or buried, even at 14/15 weeks of growth. I've had so many women tell me over the years they didn't know this information and wished they had, I just couldn't not tell you in case you didn't know. <br />My heart aches for you and these coming moments. I will be praying for you and this day <3 <br />DianaDiana Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15124299974517412267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-73523742395244568542017-01-19T14:21:00.099-08:002017-01-19T14:21:00.099-08:00No words. I am so sorry for your loss of your baby...No words. I am so sorry for your loss of your baby girl. Will pray for your family.Megan Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12649807796163059229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-713032057716800226.post-34976115238240664122017-01-19T13:59:56.253-08:002017-01-19T13:59:56.253-08:00Oh my goodness I am really at a loss for words bec...Oh my goodness I am really at a loss for words because none seem to mean enough. I am hurting for you deeply right now and so very sorry for the unexpected loss of your little one. Praying for you and your family. This just shouldn't be happening.Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04738442092989090297noreply@blogger.com